More than a physical disease
Dr. Wojcik emphasizes that there’s more to cancer than physical recovery. “After 20-plus years, I’ve found addressing the mental side of the disease – along with strong support and positivity – leads to better outcomes stage to stage,” he says. This rang true for Tiffney.
Throughout her experience, she never lost consideration for her family. Even as she faced her first surgery on Dec. 20, 2022, she made sure her family would be able to celebrate the holidays. She prepared her usual six Christmas trees and got matching pajamas for everyone ahead of time. She was also very sensitive to their reaction to her illness.
“We focus on the patient, but children just sort of come along on the journey,” she says. “They’re scared, but there’s no space for them to express their feelings.” This acknowledgement caused Tiffney to create a workbook with pages for journaling, so families can work through their feelings. This dedication to family and her own emotional health aided Tiffney’s healing process.
“When I was going through this, I started setting a 12:30 p.m. grateful alarm every day,” she says. “I would force myself to find something to be grateful about. I prayed to God, saying, ‘I don’t want this.’ But the alarm, which I still set today, helped me find some joy.”
Tiffney says her recovery – both physical and emotional – was guided by her excellent care and a simple question: “Life is not always going be the way you like, but what are you going to do with it?”